AUDHD SPARKS PODCAST

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30. Done Performing Normal

You're embracing your AuDHD identity. So why do you still go back to performing normal the second someone raises an eyebrow? What actually makes unmasking stick. 

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28. Making Up is Hard (Repair & PDA)

In AuDHD relationships, repair after conflict looks different. Talking PDA in marriages, demand-sensitive nervous systems & what actually helps us reconnect.

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27. When Your Partner Is ND Too

Ah, neurodiverse love. When you're AuDHD & your partner is also ND, relationship advice often falls apart. So what actually works?

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26. Peopled Out by Tuesday

AuDHD brains burn through social energy fast — when we follow society’s default. What connection can look like when you design for your actual brain & nervous system.

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24. Less Stuff, More Exhale

Too much stuff drowns AuDHD brains. Too little leaves us without what we need. Finding what actually lets our nervous system breathe.

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23. Home Base + Escape Hatch

Geographic flexibility for AuDHDers: How rotating between locations can honor your dual need for movement and rootedness. 

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21. Childfree & AuDHD

Why being childfree isn't opting out—it's claiming the auntie path. For AuDHD women designing lives their nervous systems can actually sustain.

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20. Built to Hold Opposites

AuDHD brains need routine AND spontaneity. This paradox isn't a flaw—it's ancestral design. Learning to work with the dual nature of our brains.

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17. Designing Life Outside the Lines

What does it look like to stop fighting your AuDHD brain and redesign your whole life? Concrete examples of ecosystem design when no model exists.

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16. Rest Looks Lazy (It’s Not)

Real AuDHD burnout recovery looks lazy to others. Video games, binge-watching, doing "nothing"—that's not laziness. That's your nervous system healing.

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14. The Burnout Tipping Point

Learn to recognize when you’ve reached an AuDHD burnout tipping point so you can course correct before it's too late.

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