By the Fire
A seasonal circle for
AuDHD women & nonbinary folks.
Virtual Circle on Zoom (free)
Fall Season — September, October, November 2026
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WHY GATHER?
Around it — others like you. People who’ve spent most of their lives being the only one like them in the room. Translating themselves. Managing how they land. Leaving tired in a way that’s hard to explain.
There’s a fire being tended.
By the Fire is where you put that down.
It’s a circle where you hear someone else name the thing you thought only you carried. Where a journaling prompt unlocks something you didn’t know was waiting. Where you get to just… be, without the effort of making yourself legible to everyone else.
We were never the only ones. Not in this room. And not across time.
Come sit with us.
What the hour looks like:
Settle in and get cozy — candle, blanket, beverage, whatever your system needs
A grounding moment together to actually arrive
Two or three journal prompts to drop into — including one that reaches back into your lineage
A circle where everyone gets their own unhurried time to share
A gentle close
No prep needed. Nothing to bring other than a journal. Nothing to perform.
Cameras encouraged but never required. No recording. No right way to show up.
This season:
By the Fire runs monthly through the fall — September, October, November. Three circles. Come to one or all three.
For those of us who’ve never quite had a place to return to — this is designed to be that.
The same fire. Familiar faces across the season.
The particular comfort of a room that already knows you by the second time you walk in.
Invite a friend. Send them to this page.
The more of our people around this fire, the better.
Who this is for:
This isn’t a support group. It’s a place to gather with your people.
What matters is that something in you recognizes this fire. That when you think about the ones who came before you — wired like you, essential in ways the world didn’t have language for — something moves.
You’re tired. Not just of masking. Of never being in a room where you don’t have to translate the deepest parts of yourself.
By the Fire is for AuDHD women and nonbinary folks who are ready for that room.
No explaining yourself. No softening your edges.
No translating who you are into something more comfortable for everybody else.
Just the fire, and your people gathered around it.
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Warmth,
Adria
